How to rebloom your poinsettia to last long after Christmas

Also known as Mexican flame leaf, poinsettias are mainly grown for their brightly colored leaf structures or bracts, which bloom at the top of the plant in striking shades of red, pink, white and other colors.

Unfortunately, poinsettias are often thrown away when those leaves begin to fade at the end of the holiday season. However, with proper care and a little ingenuity, you can learn how to rebloom poinsettias and enjoy these vibrant plants in your home or garden for many years.

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Basic tips for poinsettia care

Poinsettias can be kept as houseplants or grown outdoors year-round in zones 9 through 11. But while poinsettias can survive on your kitchen counter or bookshelf for a few weeks around the holidays, these plants need a little more attention if you want to grow them. poinsettia perennial.

  • Remove pots that drain poorly. Poinsettias are usually sold in pots with decorative foil and no drainage holes. To prevent root rot, remove the plastic wrap as soon as you bring your plants home and, if necessary, repot the poinsettias in well-draining containers.
  • Provide enough light. Indoors or outdoors, poinsettias grow best in bright, indirect light. Low light can cause these plants to lose color early, while too much sun can lead to sun damage.
  • Protect the plants from the cold. Indoor poinsettias grow well at room temperature, while outdoor plants should be protected from cold weather. Temperatures below 50°F causes poinsettia to die back, so be sure to bring in outdoor plants before fall.
  • Water correctly. For best results, water poinsettias when the top of the soil feels dry and don’t let your plants sit in water.
  • Prune as needed. Keep houseplants bushy and compact by pinching them down to the leaf node as needed. Poinsettia sap irritates the skin, so gloves are essential.
  • Fertilize sparingly. Poinsettias do not need much fertilizer, and houseplants should only be fertilized during the growing season with a liquid, organic fertilizer diluted to half strength. Outdoor plants, on the other hand, should grow well with an annual application of compost.

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How to make poinsettias bloom again

As long as you provide poinsettias with regular water and bright, indirect light, poinsettias are relatively easy to grow as foliage plants. But if you want your poinsettias to turn red again, you’ll have to “trick” them into blooming by withholding light. This can only be done once a year in the winter, just in time for the holidays.

  1. Remove the old leaves of the leaves: When your poinsettia leaves have faded, cut the bare stems back to the leaf node. Care for your plants as usual until they go dormant and shed about half of their leaves.
  2. Watch out for dormant plants: When your poinsettias are dormant, move them to a cool, dark place that won’t freeze and reduce watering.
  3. Move plants outdoors in spring: As new growth appears, increase watering and light levels and move your plants outside when temperatures are above 50°F. During the summer, water, fertilize and prune poinsettias as needed.
  4. Bring plants indoors in the fall and reduce light: Before the temperatures drop below 50°F, put the poinsettias back inside and cover them with a lightproof box every night for about 10 weeks. Poinsettias should be placed in a window during the day, but they need 16 continuous hours of pure darkness to bloom again.
  5. Enjoy the colors of the poinsettia: Poinsettia blooms are triggered by the short days of winter and plants may not rebloom if exposed to even a few seconds of light in the evening. Once your plants have color, stop depriving them of evening light and place them in a place in your home where you can enjoy them.

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Stages of poinsettia care, based on the month

As you can see, poinsettia care changes throughout the year – especially if you want your plants to bloom again. To help you keep up with those changing care requirements, here’s a quick look at how to care for poinsettias throughout each season.

flowering (December)

Place the poinsettias in bright, indirect light and water them regularly to keep the soil evenly moist. There is no need to prune or fertilize poinsettias at this time, but plants in pots with poor drainage should be transplanted into containers with drainage holes.

dormancy (January-March)

When your poinsettia leaves have faded, cut them back to the leaf node. Continue to water your plants regularly until half of their leaves have dropped. Then move your plants to a cool, dark place and water just enough to prevent the stems from shriveling.

Regrowth (April-September)

Once your poinsettias start to put out new growth, increase lighting and watering and move the plants outside when temperatures are consistently above 50°F. You can plant outdoor plants directly into your garden or keep poinsettias in pots if you plan to bring them back inside in the fall.

Cut your plant’s stems back to six inches above the soil line in June, pinch the growing tips back one inch in August, and fertilize once a month with a diluted liquid, organic fertilizer.

Rebloom (October-December)

Check your plants for pests and bring them indoors before the temperature drops below 50°F. During the day, provide the poinsettias with bright, indirect light, and in the evening reduce the room temperature to about 65°F and completely deprive your plants of light. Continue this treatment for about 10 weeks until your poinsettia leaves develop their full winter color.

FAQ

  • Yes, even though poinsettias bloom only once a year, these plants will bloom again the following winter if given proper care.

  • The poinsettias will turn red again only if you deprive your plants of light in the evening for 10 weeks during the winter.

How do ovulation tests work?

What is an ovulation kit?

An ovulation test strip (or ovulation predictor kit, also known as an OPC) can help you identify your most fertile days during your monthly cycle—that is, the day or two leading up to ovulation when sex (or insemination) is most likely to lead to pregnancy. . It can be a quick and easy way to predict when you will ovulate.

You don’t have to schedule sex to get pregnant. Sex every few days during the middle two weeks of the cycle will usually do the job. But you might want to be more strategic and determine your most fertile days if:

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  • You and your partner have busy schedules or already have children and it is not feasible to have sex that often.
  • You are trying to get pregnant through insemination.
  • You have irregular cycles that make it difficult to find your fertile window.
  • You have had difficulty conceiving after several months of trying.

How do ovulation test strips work?

There are two types of ovulation predictor kits:

OPK based on urine

They test your urine for an increase in luteinizing hormone (LH). This usually happens a day and a half before ovulation. A small amount of LH is always present in your blood and urine, but this level will increase by about two to five times in the days before ovulation.

The test stick usually shows a positive result about 24 to 36 hours before the egg is released, so plan to have sex (or get fertilized) during that time if you want to increase your chances of pregnancy.

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Fern saliva kits help you determine when ovulation is imminent by showing changes in your saliva. As estrogen levels rise in the days before ovulation, the salt content of saliva increases.

If you place a drop of saliva on a slide, the salt may dry and crystallize into a fern-like pattern that you may be able to see with a pocket portable microscope. The fern pattern should indicate that you will ovulate within the next few days (although you may continue to see the fern pattern for up to two days after ovulation).

What does a positive ovulation test mean?

A positive result means you’re likely to ovulate in the next 24 to 36 hours, so if you’re trying to get pregnant, try to have more sex in the next few days (or schedule an insemination as soon as possible, if that’s the approach you’re taking).

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However, a positive test result is not a guarantee, and all test kits have different parameters for showing a positive result. Make sure you read the instructions for your individual kit and know how to interpret the results.

“If you’ve used COCs and haven’t gotten pregnant, see a fertility specialist within a year, or within 6 months if you’re over 35,” says Tarun Jain, MD, a board-certified reproductive endocrinologist and infertility specialist (REI). and a member of the BabyCenter Medical Advisory Board. “Keep in mind that it can sometimes take several months to get an appointment, so ask your gynecologist for an early referral.”

How accurate are ovulation kits?

Urine-based LH tests are more accurate than saliva, but they are not foolproof. Follow the instructions on your kit carefully for the most accurate results. Be sure to use the test at the recommended time of day and read the results within the specified time frame.

Also, keep in mind that because LH can rise with or without the release of an egg, the tests can’t tell you for sure if you’ve ovulated.

Most importantly, don’t use these kits to try avoid pregnancy, because you won’t know exactly when you ovulated or when your fertile window is closed for that cycle.

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Fern saliva tests are less accurate than urine tests. Fertility can occur as early as six days before ovulation, as well as at other times in your menstrual cycle, especially if you are taking the fertility drug Clomid (clomiphene).

It can also be difficult to tell if peppering has occurred on the test slide. If you have low vision, spitting fern kits may not be the best method for you.

Taking Clomid or medications that contain human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG) or LH can affect the results of both saliva and urine-based tests. Ask your doctor if you need to stop taking certain medications before using these tests.

Finally, OPK is not likely to be accurate for women who are close to menopause or have polycystic ovary syndrome.

How to use ovulation kits

First of all, always read and follow the instructions that come with the kit you choose.

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Whichever kit you use, you’ll need to figure out which day of your cycle to start testing. Some kits suggest counting down 18 days from the day you expect your next period. So, if you have a 28-day cycle, start testing on day 10 (10 days after your period starts) and continue until you get a positive result.

Regarding using the kit and reading the test results, the steps will differ depending on whether you are using a urine- or saliva-based OPK.

Use of urine-based OPK

Urine-based OPKs provide five to 20 days’ worth of test sticks. Once a day, hold the test stick in a stream of urine or dip the end of the stick into the urine you have collected in a cup. Colored bands or symbols appearing on the test stick indicate whether an LH surge is occurring.

Try to collect your urine around the same time each day, but follow the instructions on your kit for best results.

Do not drink a lot of fluids for two hours before the test. Too much fluid dilutes your urine, which could make it harder to detect an increase.

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Read the results within 10 minutes. A positive result will not disappear, but some negative results may later show a faint second band of color that would be misleading.

Using fern saliva OPK

Use your finger or lick the slide to put some of your saliva on the slide. Do this first thing in the morning, before you eat or drink anything. Make sure there are no air bubbles in the sample.

Wait for the saliva to dry, then use a microscope to see if there are any ferns. Compare your slide with the examples in the instructions to tell how to identify a fern.

Where to get ovulation kits

You can buy kits online as well as over the counter in most drugstores and supermarkets (they are usually near the pregnancy tests).

The most challenging thing about getting ovulation kits is affording them. Urine-based OPCs cost between $20 and $50 and contain between five and 20 test strips. Most brands offer the same level of reliability, so choose the one that gives you the most test sticks for the least amount of money.

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Once you detect your increase, you can stop testing for that cycle and save any unused test strips for the next month (unless you get pregnant, of course).

Fern saliva OPKs may be a better value. After an initial investment of about $30 for a microscope, you should be able to test again and again. If you take a long time to get pregnant, you may need to replace the kit with a new one after about two years, depending on the brand.

Key Takeaways

  • Ovulation tests help you identify your most fertile days, the days when sex is most likely to lead to pregnancy.
  • There are two types of ovulation tests: urinary, which measure the luteinizing hormone (LH) in your system, and saliva, which measures the salt in your saliva. Urine tests are more accurate, although no method is foolproof.
  • Ovulation tests are not intended to be used as a means of avoiding pregnancy, as they will not tell you when you have stopped ovulating.

The Snow Sister Movie Review

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Stories based on books deal with grief; emotional intensity.

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What is the story?

Ten-year-old Julian (Mudit Gupta) and his family struggle to cope with the loss of their beloved sister/daughter Juni in THE SNOW SISTER. Their first Christmas without her (and Julian’s 11th birthday) is fast approaching. One day he meets Hedwig (Celina Meyer Hovland), a girl full of life who makes him discover his sister and start living again. Julian will in turn help Hedwig and others process their own losses.

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This Norwegian movie based on the book is a tearjerker that ends on a sweet note and teaches useful lessons for children about dealing with loss and grief. Snow sister follows 10-year-old Julian at home, at school and around his small town in the days leading up to Christmas. The film seems to stick closely to its source material, focusing on story over form. The twists and turns will come as no surprise to those familiar with the story. Visually, the film is not particularly striking, although it conveys some interesting details about Norwegian life, as well as a visceral sense of the cold outside (as well as the radiant warmth of some of the interior spaces).

Talk to your kids about…

  • Families can discuss the character of Hedwig and what you learned about her during the course Snow sister.

  • In what ways does Julian’s innate compassion help him and others?

  • Have you ever lost someone you loved? How did you deal with the feelings that followed that loss? Has anyone helped you process your feelings?

Movie details

  • On DVD or streaming
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    November 29, 2024

  • Cast
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    Mudit Gupta, Celina Meyer Hovland, Jan Saelid

  • Director
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    Cecilie A. Mosley

  • Opt-in information
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    Female Directors, Indian/South Asian Actresses, Actresses

  • Studio
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    Netflix

  • Genre
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    Drama

  • Themes
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    Magic and fantasy, book characters, siblings, friendship, holidays

  • Strengths of character
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    Compassion

  • Working hours
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    97 minutes

  • MPAA rating
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    NO

  • Last updated
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    November 25, 2024

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4 things I used to do before hosting guests in my tiny one bedroom apartment

The holidays are prime time for house guests, but I’ve never been one to host people over the night. When we were growing up, there was always someone else in the family who lived nearby and had much more space for our family members from other countries to stay.

I recently moved into a one bedroom apartment with my partner. It’s a small space so I didn’t expect to end up hosting more than one, but two guests for a two-night stay, this year—especially when the apartment is nowhere near fully furnished.

Although two nights may seem like a short stay, my apartment is very small and I’ve never had this dilemma before, so I immediately started working on the best ways to make my guests (and, frankly, myself) comfortable while they visited – here what did i do

Complete deep cleaning

Other people’s mess is always grosser than your own, so I did a full deep clean of every nook and cranny. It helped to imagine that they would show up wearing white gloves and inspect for dust (they weren’t), so I really got to grips with everything that needed to be cleaned.

My partner and I split the cleaning evenly, with him focusing on our living room-kitchen-dining room combo, while I focused most of my attention on our bathroom, entryway, and finally our bedroom.

Splitting the job in half made the task much easier, and I was grateful that I didn’t have to worry about my guests noticing crumbs on the kitchen counter or a stain on our baseboard.

All of this cleaning also happened a week before my partner and I went on vacation, so we also put the laundry away while we were at it. I paid particular attention to workout clothes – I was determined to keep our guests away from sweaty smells.

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Refilling our snacks

I’m used to a household of two (and a kitten), so we usually stock up on just the right amount of snacks to last us until our next shopping trip. We’d let our snacks run out more than usual because, with the holidays just around the corner, we didn’t want anything to run out while we were away.

A quick trip to the grocery store solved this problem, and I stocked up on all the snacks in the apartment (and got some extras, if the guests wanted) so I wouldn’t have to look for anything or go to the grocery store.

Preparation of additional toiletries

When I put the apartment in order, I kept asking myself “what would I like to be a guest?” Making sure the bathroom was equipped with everything they needed (and felt comfortable using) was very important – because who wants an awkward bathroom situation?

Before they arrived, I made sure my bathroom was stocked with spare body and hand towels, a brand new air freshener, a fresh pack of toiletries, and a body wash that was safe for shared use.

I even cleaned and prepared the nail clippers just in case—you really never know what someone might need!

Setting up an excellent space for rest

Privacy is my main concern whenever I travel, so I wanted my guests to feel like they had their own space while staying with us.

Unfortunately, that meant sacrificing my living room (it’s a one bedroom apartment, and I didn’t give up my room). I prepared a queen size air mattress for them with all the sheets and blankets they will need to stay warm during our New York winter. I kept my time in the living room very short and away from their personal belongings so they wouldn’t feel like I was invading their (very limited) space during their two night stay.

I wanted to make sure my guests felt like I had thought of everything to make them comfortable. Aside from having to share my Wifi password, I was able to minimize many questions about pet torture with snacks, toiletries, and privacy issues. The stay was short and my guests felt taken care of and, in the end, that’s all that really mattered.

Safe skin care during pregnancy

You may have given a lot of thought to what you eat during pregnancy (cravings are real), but what do you put in them? he your body can be just as important as what you put in it.

While most commonly used skin care products are completely safe, there are a few ingredients that experts say are best avoided during pregnancy.

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Key Takeaways

  • Avoid retinols and phthalates during pregnancy.
  • Topical products with salicylic acid, glycolic acid, and lactic acid are considered relatively low risk, just don’t use them in high doses.
  • Make-up, sunscreens, steroid creams and hair removers are generally considered safe – just check the labels first.

Skin care ingredients to avoid during pregnancy

Retinol

Retinoids (also known as tretinoins) are a type of vitamin A that accelerates cell division (rapid renewal of your skin) and prevents the breakdown of skin collagen. These powerful substances are found in some antiaging moisturizers and treatments for acne, pigmentation disorders, and plaque psoriasis.

But retinoids are one of the skincare ingredients that experts recommend pregnant women stay away from. Some studies have shown that taking high doses of vitamin A during pregnancy can be harmful to the unborn child. Oral retinoids, such as isotretinoin (a prescription acne treatment formerly sold under the brand name Accutane), are known to cause birth defects.

“With the exception of the known correlation between vitamin A derivatives such as retinoids, most topical skin care products are low risk,” says Layan Alrahmani, MD, OB/GYN, maternal-fetal medicine specialist and member of BabyCenter Medical. Advisory Board.”If you are ever unsure about certain medications or ingredients, it is best to consult with your obstetrician.”

If you’ve been using a skin cream that contains a retinoid, don’t panic. Retinoids that you put on your skin have no it has been shown to cause problems in pregnant women. Doctors are only extremely cautious in recommending that you avoid them.

Avoid products with these ingredients:

  • Avage, Fabior, Tazorac (tazarotene)
  • Avita (tretinoin)
  • Differin (adapen)
  • Panretin (alitretinoin)
  • Retin-A, Renova (tretinoin)
  • Retinoic acid
  • Retinol
  • Retinyl linoleate
  • Retinyl palmitate
  • Targretin gel (bexarotene)

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Conclusion: Do not take oral retinoids, such as isotretinoin, during pregnancy. To be on the safe side, it’s best to avoid topical retinoids (the ingredients listed above) as well.

Acids

Hydroxy acids such as beta hydroxy acid (BHA) and alpha hydroxy acid (AHA) are found in products to treat certain skin disorders, including acne, skin inflammation, and redness. They are also found in many cleansers, toners and scrubs that are advertised to reduce the signs of aging.

Salicylic acid is the most common BHA you will find listed as an ingredient and the only BHA that has been studied in pregnancy. High doses of acid in it oral form – it’s an ingredient in aspirin – has been shown in studies to cause birth defects and various pregnancy complications. Other BHAs have not been studied in pregnancy.

Very little BHA would be absorbed into the skin when applied topically. But because oral salicylic acid is not safe during pregnancy, doctors also recommend avoiding excessive or frequent use of BHA-containing skin products.

Small amounts applied to the skin—such as a salicylic acid toner used once or twice a day—are considered safe.

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You can use a face wash that does not contain more than 2% salicylic acid (look for the percentage on the product label). This small amount is considered safe. If you want to be doubly sure, ask your doctor exactly how much would be safe to use.

The concern is greater with face and body scrubs that contain salicylic acid. Always consult your doctor before peeling treatment. Better yet, if you must exfoliate, get it professionally done at your dermatologist’s office. A dermatologist will know how to do this safely during pregnancy.

If you use a BHA product, use it with sun protection, as BHA can cause sensitivity to sunlight.

The two most common alpha hydroxy acids (AHAs) in beauty products are glycolic acid and lactic acid. AHAs have not been studied in pregnancy, but because only small amounts are absorbed into the skin, they are considered low risk when used in skin treatments. However, to be on the safe side, it’s a good idea to use them only in small amounts.

Products containing these ingredients are safe to use in small amounts:

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  • Alpha Hydroxy Acid (AHA)
  • Azelaic acid
  • Benzoyl peroxide
  • Beta Hydroxy Acids (BHA)
  • Beta hydroxybutanoic acid
  • Betaine salicylate
  • Citric acid
  • Dicarbonic acid
  • Glycolic acid
  • Hydroacetic acid
  • Hydroxyacetic acid
  • Hydroxycaproic acid
  • Lactic acid
  • Salicylic acid
  • Tretocanic acid
  • Tropical acid
  • 2-hydroxyethanoic acid

Conclusion: Do not take BHA orally, and it is best to limit their use topically.

Phthalates

It is impossible to completely avoid phthalates. A type of chemical used in everything from plastic food containers to garden hoses, phthalates are truly everywhere—including skin care.

They’re commonly used in fragranced products, which is why experts recommend using skin care and makeup products that are clearly labeled “fragrance-free.” This is different from “unscented”, which can mean that chemicals are used to mask the smell. (Hard, right?)

Studies have shownOpens a new window that children born to mothers exposed to certain phthalates during pregnancy are more likely to experience motor skill deficiencies and speech delays.

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Several phthalates have been linked to endocrine disruption as well as developmental and reproductive toxicity. One type in particular, DBP, has been linked to the proliferation of breast cancer cells. DBP and DEHP, which have been shown to cause liver tumors in animals, are banned in cosmetics in the European Union, but not in the United States. DBP is sometimes used in nail polish, so check those labels.

Products containing these ingredients should be avoided:

  • dibutyl phthalate (DBP)
  • Diethyl Phthalate (DEP)
  • Di-2-ethylhexyl phthalate (DEHP)
  • Butyl benzyl phthalate (BBP)

Conclusion: Make sure the products you use are labeled “unscented” to avoid harmful phthalates during pregnancy.

My esthetician stopped me on all the active ingredients, so it’s basically a gentle cleanser, gentler toner, moisturizer, and sunscreen. However, always ask your doctor.

– Member of the BabyCenter Chelseatx community

Skin care ingredients that are safe during pregnancy

Makeup

You might not think about the type of makeup you use, but even cosmetics are something to consider when you’re pregnant.

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Many makeup products are labeled “non-comedogenic” or “non-acnegenic” – meaning they’re oil-free and won’t clog pores. They are safe and will not affect your baby’s health.

If you want to be very careful during pregnancy, try some of the mineral-only makeup lines. These products use ingredients that are primarily found on top of the skin and do not cause irritation in most people.

Conclusion: Most makeup is safe to use during pregnancy. If you want to be extra careful, use makeup that only contains minerals.

Sunscreens

Just because you’re pregnant doesn’t mean you can’t go to the beach. But don’t forget the sunscreen. Even sunscreens with ingredients that penetrate the skin are considered safe during pregnancy. However, as an extra precaution, you can opt for products that use titanium dioxide and zinc oxide – physical sunscreens that don’t penetrate the skin.

(In addition to sunscreen, avoid the sun between 10 a.m. and 4 p.m.; wear a sun hat, sunglasses, and protective clothing; and reapply sunscreen every two hours when you’re outside. And yes, even if you have dark skin, you should use sunscreen and follow these guidelines).

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It is best not to use sunscreen that contains hydroquinone to lighten the skin. There is limited data on its safety during pregnancy, and most experts agree that it is best avoided.

These topical ingredients are considered low risk during pregnancy:

  • Avobenzone (Parsol 1789)
  • Benzophenone
  • Dioxybenzone
  • Octo-winged
  • octyl methoxycinnamate (OMC)
  • Oxybenzone
  • Para-aminobenzoic acid (PABA)
  • Titanium dioxide
  • Zinc oxide

Conclusion: You can use sunscreen when you are pregnant. Check out our favorite pregnancy-safe sunscreens here.

Steroids

Steroid creams—such as over-the-counter hydrocortisone creams—are often used for minor skin irritation, inflammation, itching, and rashes caused by contact dermatitis, mild eczema, rashes, psoriasis, soaps, detergents, cosmetics, jewelry, and insect bites.

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These topical steroids are considered safe for use during pregnancy. Stronger steroid products are sometimes prescribed by dermatologists or primary care physicians, and most are also safe.

But talk to your doctor about the safety of all prescription products, including topical prescriptions, before using them during pregnancy.

These ingredients are considered safe:

  • alclomethasone (Aclovate)
  • Desonide (Desonate, DesOwen)
  • Fluocinolone (Capex, Derma-smoothe)
  • Hydrocortisone (Aquanil HC)
  • triamcinolone (Aristocort A, Kenalog)

Conclusion: Most topical steroids are safe, but always check with your doctor just in case.

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Hair removers and minimizers

Lotions that chemically remove hair (depilatories) or that minimize hair between shaves sound like a dream come true when you can barely reach—not to mention—see your legs. The good news is that these products are considered safe as long as you use them as directed.

If you have had an allergic skin reaction to minimizers or hair removal creams in the past, you should also avoid these products during pregnancy.

Also, some women’s skin becomes especially sensitive during pregnancy, so you may have a reaction to these ingredients even if you haven’t before. Before applying to the entire leg, do a test on a small patch of skin behind the knee and wait 24 hours to see if you react.

These topical ingredients are considered low risk during pregnancy:

  • Calcium thioglycolate (depilation)
  • Hydrolyzed soy protein (minimizer)
  • Potassium thioglycolate (depilation)
  • Sanguisorba officinalis root extract (minimizer)
  • Sodium hydroxide (minimizer)

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Conclusion: Most hair removers and minimizers are safe to use during pregnancy.

The last word

If you have any concerns about a skin product, it’s a good idea to discuss it with your doctor. If you’ve used a product that contains a potentially harmful ingredient, don’t panic. Simply stop using the product now and choose one with safer ingredients.

“My esthetician stopped me at all the active ingredients, so it’s basically a gentle cleanser, gentler toner, moisturizer, and sunscreen,” she says. BabyCenter Community a member of Chelseatx. “Facials, but no exfoliation. Always ask your doctor though.”

In addition to checking the labels in your medicine cabinet, there are nonprofit organizations that will give you all the information you need before you buy anything new. The Campaign for safe cosmeticsOpens a new window has a detailed analysis of every product and chemical of importance to pregnant women.

Saint Nick of Bethlehem Movie Review

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By Monica Jones

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A holiday film about loss promotes compassion, empathy.

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What is the story?

SAINT NICK OF BETHLEHEM follows Nick (Daniel Roebuck), a lonely man reeling from his wife’s abandonment and the death of his teenage son in a drunken driver accident. After one particularly bad night of grief, Nick wakes up to a message from his son to live life to the fullest. As a result, Nick decides to embody the spirit of Santa by giving back to his community through his brother’s used car dealership.

Is it good?

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This drama has the foundation of a good story, but the story gets bogged down in meandering, sometimes nonsensical storylines. Too bad, since Saint Nick of Bethlehem it could have been a nice, meaningful, low-budget movie with a big heart. As it is, the film has some odd characterizations and humor at times, not to mention a lack of build-up as to why Nick chose to embody Santa Claus. We know he says his son’s ghost told him that, but we never actually see it to have this epiphany, which makes his explanation seem to come out of nowhere.

Nick’s other decisions also seem a bit unsupported. Why did he decide to make his entire wardrobe red? Why does he seemingly equate Santa with God when he talks to a boy who is also dealing with grief? The questions at the end make what should be emotional scenes feel clunky and emotionally uninspired.

Talk to your kids about…

  • Families can talk about grief. How Nick deals with his grief at first Saint Nick of Bethlehem? What makes him fight back as a more positive way to deal with loss?

  • How does the film promote compassion and empathy? Why are these character strengths important?

  • Are female characters and people of color represented with depth and nuance in the film?

  • What spiritual or religious messages does the film have? Do you think it is intended primarily for religious viewers?

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5 questions minimalists ask themselves before buying anything

Every day we’re inundated with ads telling us to buy things—and online shopping has made it easier than ever to buy an item quickly. While some of these things are useful and make our daily lives easier, a lot of them just end up as clutter in our homes.

“We’re surrounded by cultural messages that we’re not enough,” says Emily McDermott, cleaning coach and owner of Simple by Emmy. “It’s up to us to discern whether an item will truly improve our lives, or whether we’re just listening to marketing messages that tell us we need it to be happy.”

It’s hard to cut through the noise and figure out what you really need sometimes. So we turned to decluttering and minimalism experts for their tips and tricks – here are the questions they always ask themselves before buying anything.

Meet the expert

  • Elizabeth Shields is the operations manager at Super Cleaning Service in Louisville, Kentucky.
  • Emily McDermott is a cleaning trainer and owner of Simple by Emmy.

Will this bring me long-term joy?

We often buy things because it will bring us joy—but it’s not necessarily long-lasting.

Elizabeth Shields, operations manager at Super Cleaning Service, says it’s important to ask yourself if the item you’re considering buying will bring you joy in the long term, or if you’re buying it for “dopamine.”

“Joy is permanent, but dopamine is fleeting,” says Shields. “If the excitement is gone the moment you buy it, that’s a red flag. Try waiting 24 hours and see if the ‘spark’ is still there. If it doesn’t light you up after a day, it’s not worth it.”

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Do I just buy it because it’s on sale?

There are sales every day. And while that can be useful for saving on items you really need, Shields cautions that just because an item is on sale doesn’t mean you need it.

“Selling is tricky,” she says. “They trick you into thinking you’re saving money when you’re actually just spending it. Ask yourself if you’d buy this item at full price. If no, go for it.”

Is this overly trendy?

One of the fastest ways to fill your home with clutter and things you don’t need is to shop regularly for trends. Although some trends have longevity, many of them are fleeting.

“Trends come and go, but clutter is forever,” says Shields. “Minimalism is timeless, not trendy.”

McDermott agrees and recommends asking yourself if you’re buying an item for yourself and because it’s something you want, or if you’re buying it for the approval of others.

Is this an upgrade?

Buying to replace an older item is a great reason to buy something, so before you buy anything, think about whether this is the case.

“Replacement shopping is a smart purchase,” says Shields. “But if it’s just adding to your stash without releasing anything else, think about it. Make sure you’re not just hoarding.”

McDermott also suggests asking yourself a similar question: “Will this item have a permanent home?”

Too often we buy things and then don’t have room for them, so it’s worth considering whether you really have room for it. Or use the one-to-one rule to make sure these things don’t build up over time.

How often will I use it?

You should, more often than not, be sure that your purchases are also investments. And a smart investment is something you will get a lot out of, such as regular use and wear.

“We all want to believe we’re going to use that toaster every weekend or wear those sparkly heels to every party,” says Shields.

Shields explains that asking yourself how often you’ll actually use an item before you buy it is essential—and she even has a specific rule of thumb you can follow.

“Think of a realistic number of times you’ll use it over the next month or year,” she says. “If it’s less than three, put it back.”

What to do when your child just won’t listen to you

If you have a child at home, then you know that they spend all day every day exploring and developing new skills: running, jumping and climbing, expanding their vocabulary, potty training, using their imaginations and wanting to do everything alone. It’s all part of their coming independence.

Unfortunately, another part of that budding independence is testing how much control they have over their choices—including ignoring you when you give them directions. They heard you asking them to stop drawing the curtain, but… did you really mean it? Or can they continue to do so? (It’s really fun!)

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Key Takeaways

  • It is normal for little ones not to listen; their brains are not developed enough for skills like impulse control and decision making.
  • Young children often challenge all their authority figures in their quest for independence, including parents, teachers and babysitters.
  • Experts do not recommend yelling, hitting, or giving young children time-outs as forms of discipline.
  • Give clear choices, follow through with consequences consistently, make following directions fun, and model good behavior to better communicate expectations and rules with your toddler.

“My daughter straight up tells me to stop whenever she doesn’t want to listen,” he says BabyCenter Community member TashaNotman. “It’s just kid stuff!”

On top of that, toddlers lack the cognitive skills needed to see the bigger picture and make good decisions in the moment.

Here are some reasons why your child might be shutting you out a lot, plus how you can deal with it.

Why is my child not listening?

A toddler’s prefrontal cortex is still developing, so skills like impulse control and logical reasoning are not yet developed. When you feel like your child isn’t “listening” to you, what’s actually going on is a little more out of their control. They often listen just fine (and know the rules). But they cannot follow through consistently, because they have not yet mastered their behavior.

This also applies to scenarios outside the home: young children will test their limits on the playground, at the supermarket, at preschool, and at their siblings’ dance recital, if given the chance.

Sometimes a child’s refusal to listen is also a pushback against anyone they see as authority – this includes their teachers and babysitters or babysitters (although some parents notice that their children behave better with other adults).

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“My little one is such a good listener with other people, but when it comes to me he pushes every line and doesn’t listen at all,” she says. BabyCenter Community member of Angelhill. As frustrating as it may be, take it as a compliment – ​​it means your child feels safe enough with you to test their limits.

Is it normal for toddlers not to listen?

Yes, it is common for young children to ignore what they are told. Again, part of this is developmental; older children are better able to work out the right way to respond to a direction they don’t like, but toddler brains are still forming the skills needed to think things through and control their impulses.

“You can’t expect a child to listen to your every word all the time,” he says BabyCenter Community a member of Trishou. “My child will listen and follow when he wants to…but when he’s tired, he won’t. That’s completely normal.”

It’s also perfectly normal for young children to test their limits. Children feel safe when they know there are boundaries – that they can count on them to know what’s going on next – so little ones will often see how far they can go before you step in and stop them.

This can be frustrating for parents, but it’s actually an important part of your child’s interaction with the world around them.

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How can I get my child to listen without yelling at him?

Having a child who doesn’t listen to you is annoying at best and infuriating at worst. But yelling doesn’t serve much purpose other than to make you feel (temporarily) better.

“Yelling will most likely make the situation worse,” says Kelley Yost Abrams, Ph.D., a developmental psychologist and member of BabyCenter’s medical advisory board. “It will increase your toddler’s emotional response, making him even more stubborn and less likely to cooperate.”

As for other forms of discipline, most experts now agree that both time-outs and hitting are ineffective and counter to healthy development, especially for young children. These strategies are basically punishing your child for behavior that is beyond their control due to their stage of brain development.

You can’t expect a child to listen to your every word all the time. My child will listen and follow when he wants to.

– Member of the BabyCenter Trishou community

What you really need to focus on is communicating with your child or “speaking their language”. Here are some tips for baby talk.

Get on their level

As every parent realizes sooner or later, yelling from a great height (much less from across the room) rarely has the desired effect. Crouch or pick up your child so you can look them in the eye and get their attention.

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It is important to be at eye level and in close physical proximity. They’ll listen more carefully if you sit next to them at the breakfast table when you remind them to eat their cereal, or sit on their bed at night when you tell them you’re going to turn off the lights.

Be clear and give choices when you can

Get your message across clearly, simply and with quiet authority. Your child will drift away if you talk too long about a topic. It’s hard to find the point of a wordy message like “It’s really cold outside and you’ve been sick lately, so I want you to put on a sweater before we go to the store.”

On the other hand, “It’s time to grab a sweater” is unmistakable. And don’t ask something as a question if your child doesn’t really have a choice. “It’s time to climb into your car seat” has a lot more impact than “Come climb into your car seat, okay, honey?”

It’s good to give little ones a choice, but make sure you’re okay with all the options you offer – and stick to just two. By allowing your little one to make limited choices, they’ll feel empowered (and you’ll be happy with the result).

You might say, “It’s time to put on a sweater. Do you want to wear orange or green?” or “It’s time to get into your car seat. Would you like to buckle up or need help?”

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Follow to the end

Make it clear that you mean what you say and don’t make threats – or promises – that you won’t keep. If you tell your two-year-old, “You need to drink some water at dinner time,” don’t waffle on him five minutes later and let him have juice.

Make sure your partner shares your rules and respects them, so that neither of you is undermining the other. And if there’s a disagreement, talk it out so you’re both clear about what to say or do when the problem comes up again (as it surely will).

And don’t fall into the trap of repeating less urgent instructions, like “Put your cup on the table,” over and over before you expect your child to comply. Gently guide your child’s hand to place the cup on the table, so he knows exactly what you want him to do.

Amplify your message

It often helps to supplement your verbal statement with other types of messages, especially if you are trying to distract your child from activities that are absorbing you.

Say, “It’s time for bed!” and then give a visual cue (turning the light switch on and off), a physical cue (putting a hand on their shoulder to gently draw their attention away from their toy to you), and a demonstration (directing them toward the bed, pulling back the covers, and patting the pillow).

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You can also ask your child to repeat your instructions back to you so that you are both sure that they have been heard and received.

It is also important that your child knows when something is particularly dangerous and that you show how to approach it safely. For example, when your child is crossing the street, always hold their hand. In this way, they will associate the danger of cars with caution.

Give positive instructions

Young children (and frankly, most adults!) respond better to instructions that tell them what they want I can they do versus what they can’t.

Instead of telling your child, “Don’t leave your shoes on the floor,” try reframing your correction to, “Put your shoes in your cubicle, please.”

This is also a more specific way to give your child instructions, which makes them easier to follow. They will know exactly what is expected of them, not just what not to do.

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Tell them the plan in advance

Let your child know ahead of time before there’s a big change, especially if they enjoy playing with toys or a friend.

Before it’s time to go inside after playing, say, “We’ll be leaving in a few minutes. When I call you, it’s time to get out of the sandbox and wash your hands.”

Be educational – and make it fun

Give realistic tasks, like “Let’s remove the yellow blocks.” Then you can turn it into a game: “Okay, now let’s put it blue blocks away.”

Shouting orders may produce results, but no one will enjoy the process. Most children respond best when you treat them with confident good humor. Try using a silly voice or song to get your message across – you could sing “Now’s the time to brush your teeth” to the tune of “London Bridge”, for example.

Make sure the benefits of listening make sense to your child. (“Brush your teeth and then you can pick out your favorite PJs” instead of “You have to brush your teeth or you’ll get cavities” or “Brush your teeth NOW!”)

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Praise them when they finish brushing with something like, “Thanks for listening when I said it’s time to brush.” Being specific about praise helps reinforce the behavior.

The good humor, affection and trust you show your child when you talk to him in this way will make him I want to listen to you because they will know you love them and think they are special.

A model of good behavior

Children will be better listeners if they see that you listen well too.

Make it a habit to listen to your child as respectfully as you would any adult. Look at them when they’re talking to you, respond politely, and let them finish without interrupting whenever possible.

Although it may seem like a daunting task when you’re cooking dinner and your child is especially chatty, try not to walk away and turn your back while he’s talking. As with many other behaviors, the old adage “Do as I say, not as I do” holds little value when teaching your child how to listen.

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Catch your child doing well

How often do you talk to your child about what he is doing wrong? Would you like to listen to someone—like your boss, for example—who only gave you negative feedback?

Your child is more likely to listen to you if you notice that he is behaving well and comment on it. “You put your dolls away the first time I asked you. Well done!” or “You were very gentle with the puppy. I’m proud of you!”

Make sure you give your little one plenty of positive reinforcement – ​​and be specific about what you praise them for. They’re less likely to tune you out when you need to get them back on course.

Looking for more resources on how to communicate with your child? Many members of the BabyCenter community recommend the book How to talk so that young children will listenJoanna Faber and Julie King. And Dr. Yost Abrams recommends it Why is my child in charge? by Claire Learner – covers more topics than How to talk to young children who will listenincluding cooperation.

Parenting Through the Ages: Your Guide to Positive Parenting!

Parenting is a fulfilling but demanding experience, with its share of joys and challenges, successes and failures. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed as a parent in today’s fast-paced world. This guide offers valuable tips and strategies for positive parenting, covering everything from the stages of child development to creating an atmosphere of support and care. Whether you’re a first-time parent or have years of experience, this guide will provide you with fresh insights and ideas to help you on your parenting journey.

Understanding the importance of positive parenting

Establishing a healthy and supportive environment for your child’s growth and development is crucial. Research has consistently shown that positive parenting practices have numerous benefits for both parents and children. Parents can foster a sense of security and build a strong parent-child bond by focusing on positive parenting techniques, communication, and emotional support.

This approach encourages healthy emotional and social development and helps constructively shape children’s behavior. Furthermore, positive parenting promotes positive self-image, self-esteem and resilience in children

Building a Strong Foundation: Effective Communication and Setting Boundaries

Effective communication and boundary setting are critical to building a solid foundation for positive parenting. Communication is vital to understanding your child’s needs, thoughts and emotions. By maintaining open and honest communication, you create an environment where your child feels comfortable expressing himself and seeking guidance. Active listening and empathy are essential skills that allow you to connect with your child on a deeper level.

Along with effective communication, setting boundaries is key to teaching your child about boundaries and acceptable behavior. Clear and consistent boundaries provide structure and security. It is necessary to establish age-appropriate and fair rules and consequences. You empower your child to make responsible decisions and develop self-discipline by setting boundaries.

Cultivating emotional intelligence: Teaching empathy and resilience

Cultivating emotional intelligence is a key aspect of positive parenting. This includes helping your child develop empathy and resilience, which will serve him well.

Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. By teaching your child empathy, you instill in him a sense of compassion and understanding. Encourage them to put themselves in someone else’s shoes and consider how their actions might affect others. This helps them develop strong interpersonal skills and build healthy relationships.

Resilience, on the other hand, is the ability to bounce back from failure and deal with challenges. Teach your child that failure is a part of life and that mistakes are opportunities to grow and learn. Help them develop problem-solving skills and a positive mindset to confidently overcome obstacles.

Promoting physical and mental well-being: healthy habits and self-care

Promoting physical and mental well-being is key to raising happy and healthy children. By teaching your child healthy habits and the importance of self-care, you are setting him up for a lifetime of well-being.

Encourage your child to engage in regular physical activity. Whether it’s playing sports, riding a bike or simply running around the park, physical activity helps children build strength, coordination and overall fitness. It also improves their mood, reduces stress and boosts self-confidence.

In addition to physical activity, prioritize sleep and nutrition. Help your child establish a healthy sleep routine and ensure they get enough restorative sleep each night. A well-balanced diet is also essential for their overall health and development. Teach them about healthy food choices and involve them in meal planning and preparation.

Teach your child the importance of taking care of their mental health. Encourage open communication and provide a safe space for them to express their feelings and emotions. Teach them coping strategies for stress and anxiety, such as deep breathing exercises or mindfulness techniques.

Adapting your parenting approach to different stages: newborns, toddlers, preschoolers, school-age children and adolescence

Adapting your parenting approach for different stages is key to raising happy and healthy children. Each stage of your child’s development comes with unique challenges and opportunities, requiring you to adjust your parenting style accordingly.

  • You should focus on providing your baby with a safe and nurturing environment during childhood. Establishing a strong bond through frequent physical contact, such as cuddling and massaging babies, helps build a sense of security. Responding quickly to their needs, such as feeding and changing diapers, promotes trust and emotional well-being.
  • As your child enters childhood, he becomes more independent and curious about the world. Encourage exploration and provide a safe environment for them to learn and discover. Setting clear boundaries and offering age-appropriate toys and activities helps encourage their emotional and cognitive development.
  • Preschoolers develop their social skills and emotional regulation. Teach them how to communicate their feelings and manage conflicts respectfully. Encouraging imaginative play and engaging in interactive activities helps cultivate their creativity and problem-solving abilities.
  • When your child enters school age, he becomes more involved in academics and extracurricular activities. Support their educational journey by providing a structured routine and conducive learning environment. Encourage friendships and teach them the values ​​of teamwork and perseverance.
  • During adolescence, your child goes through significant physical, emotional and social changes. Be patient and understanding as they navigate their identity and independence. Keep the lines of communication open, encourage healthy decision-making, and provide guidance without being overly controlling.

Fostering a positive parent-child relationship: bonding activities and quality time

Fostering a positive parent-child relationship is key to raising happy and healthy children at every stage of their development. Bonding activities and quality time spent together strengthen the bond between parents and children and contribute to the child’s overall well-being.

Quality time is one of the most effective ways to bond with your child. Taking time every day to engage in activities your child enjoys can make a big difference. Whether you’re playing board games, going for a walk, or simply talking, these moments create opportunities for bonding and mutual understanding.

Pursuing common interests and hobbies can also be a great way to bond with your child. It can be anything from baking to exploring nature or learning a new skill together. These activities not only promote bonding, but also provide a positive environment for learning and growth.

In addition to spending quality time, showing affection and expressing love is key to building a strong parent-child relationship. Hugs, kisses and verbal expressions of affection go a long way in making your child feel loved and safe.

  • Remember, the key is to be fully present and engaged during these bonding activities. Eliminate distractions like smartphones or work-related thoughts and focus on precious moments with your child.

Adapting to Challenges: Setting Boundaries and Resolving Conflict

As parents, you will inevitably encounter challenges as you navigate the parenting journey. From setting boundaries to resolving conflicts, these moments allow you to teach your children essential life skills and encourage positive growth.

Setting limits is key to creating a safe and structured environment for your child. Clearly communicating expectations and rules helps them understand boundaries and develop self-discipline. Consistency is key when it comes to applying these restrictions. When your child knows what is expected of him and the consequences for crossing those boundaries, he is more likely to thrive in a structured environment.

Conflicts are an integral part of life and learning how to resolve them effectively is essential for both children and adults. Encourage open and respectful communication, allowing your child to express their thoughts and feelings without judgment. Teach them problem-solving techniques and the importance of compromise. In this way, you empower them to manage conflicts positively and constructively.

However, it is equally important to nurture independence in your children. Encouraging them to make their own decisions and take responsibility for their own actions helps them develop a strong sense of self and build their self-esteem. Parents can support their journey to independence by guiding them, providing opportunities for growth, and fostering a loving and supportive environment.

The parenting journey is a rollercoaster ride filled with both joys and challenges. As a parent, it’s important to embrace both, knowing that every moment is an opportunity to grow and learn. By setting limits and resolving conflicts in a positive and constructive way, you provide your children with the necessary tools to confidently and resiliently navigate life’s challenges.

Following these positive parenting tips and tricks can raise happy and healthy children at every stage. Remember, it’s not just about the destination; it’s about enjoying the wonderful journey of parenthood along the way.

Wuthering Heights (1939) Movie Review

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The best version of the gothic-romantic revenge story.

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What is the story?

In the English countryside of the 1800s, a traveler caught in a raging snowstorm is forced to seek refuge in Wuthering Heights, a mansion full of unfortunate souls presided over by the hostile Heathcliff (Laurence Olivier). When a visitor sees a phantom woman outside her window in a blizzard, the old maid tells the story of passion and unforgivable loss that made Obsessive Love haunt Wuthering Heights, literally. Heathcliff was a homeless “gypsy” boy who was adopted by the kind lord of Wuthering Heights to be raised with his children, Cathy (Merle Oberon) and Hindley (Hugh Williams). Cathy takes a liking to Heathcliff, but Hindley, jealous and snotty, hates the adoptive father. When Mr. Earnshaw dies, Hindley inherits the estate and treats Heathcliff as a peasant-servant. Promising Heathcliff that she will always be his, Cathy leaves for school, only to return to Wuthering Heights with her high-class fiancé, the snobbish Edgar Linton (David Niven). When she declares Heathcliff unworthy, he flees to America, amasses a fortune, transforms into a dashing gentleman, and returns with a vengeance to take over Wuthering Heights and enact a cruel strategy to win Cathy back for his broken heart.

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Emily Brontë’s often-assigned novel about romance gone bad and not-so-sweet revenge on the Yorkshire moors inspired this extraordinary classic from Hollywood’s Golden Age. WUTHERING HEIGHTS came out the same year as Mr. Smith is going to Washington, Gone with the wind, The Wizard of Oz, The Women, Goodbye Mr. Chipsand Stagecoachamong other things. It’s no wonder that film buffs consider 1939 one of the best years for American film studios ever, and some partisans give Wuthering Heights a vote for the best of that celluloid vintage, though some elements of it (especially the many wailing violin solos) haven’t aged too well. Wuthering Heights offers young viewers today a much-needed reminder of the great beauty of black-and-white films. It won an Oscar for cinematography, and it’s really impossible to imagine that the dark melodrama of the bar is very effective in color.

Younger viewers may only know Laurence Olivier from his unimpressive late-career character roles in fantasy like Clash of the Titans and the odd cameo after death The sky captain and the world of tomorrow. Watch this for Olivier in his prime and you’ll understand why his name has been synonymous with the best acting on screen for generations. It’s really hard to imagine anyone else portraying one of the greatest bad boys in literature. Although the screenplay simplifies a lot of the book, the core idea of ​​love tortured and twisted into hate (which is, in itself, a strange form of loyalty) comes through loud and clear.

Talk to your kids about…

  • Families can discuss the dysfunctional relationship Heathcliff has with Cathy. How much of their problems are family and social pressures trying to keep them apart — she’s aristocratic and he’s a virtual peasant — and how much of the problem is of their own making? How could they find happiness together or apart? You can compare the film’s narrative to an Emily Bronte novel, which covers a longer period of time and has many more twists and turns. Do you see battle-scarred love affairs like this in movies made today?

Did we miss something about diversity?

Research shows a connection between children’s healthy self-esteem and positive portrayals in the media. That’s why we’ve added a new “Different Representations” section to our reviews, which will be published continuously. You can help us help children